Heaven goes by grace. If it went by merit,
you would stay out and your dog would get in.
Mark Twain
Some say it's a philosophy, others that it's an ethical stance, while still others claim it's really an experience. None of these really gets at the heart of the matter, however. Each of those things is something a Christian has, but not one of them serves as a definition of what a Christian is.
Christianity has at its core a transaction between a person and God. A person who becomes a Christian moves from knowing about God distantly to knowing Him directly and intimately. "Now this is eternal life: that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent." — John 17:3.
Our desire for personal knowledge of God is strong, but we usually fail to recognize the desire for what it is. When we first fall in love, when we first marry, when we finally break into our chosen field, when we at last get that weekend house—these breakthroughs arouse in us an anticipation of something, which, as it turns out, never occurs. We eventually discover that our desire for that precious something is a longing that no lover or career or achievement, even the best possible ones, can ever satisfy.
The satisfaction fades away even as we close our fingers around our goal. Nothing ever delivers the joy it seemed to promise. Many of us avoid the yawning emptiness through busyness or denial, but, at best, there is only a postponement. "Nothing tastes," said Marie Antoinette. There are several ways people respond to this:
In order to form a personal relationship with God, we must know three things:
The term “gospel” was originally used to describe a proclamation–a piece of good news–announced by a royal messenger. When a messenger declared, “The army was victorious!” it meant the people were victorious as well. Likewise, when the messenger shouted, “By decree of the king, every person may now own one acre of land!” it was an exciting piece of news for the people of the kingdom.
For this reason, biblical writers adopted the term “gospel” to describe the historical reality and teaching associated with the life, death, resurrection and ascension of Jesus Christ. The gospel does not merely declare salvation; it affects it, saying, “God is reconciling broken people and this broken world to himself through the life, death, resurrection and ascension of Jesus! Believe upon Him as His kingdom is breaking in!”
It has been said, “The gospel means that I am more flawed and sinful than I ever dared believe, but at the same time, I am even more loved and accepted than I ever dared hope because Jesus Christ lived and died in my place.” Much like the gospels proclaimed in the days of royal messengers, the implications of the gospel of Christ are personal, social and cultural in their scope.
On the one hand, you may feel very much that you "need" God. Even though you may recognize that you have needs only God can meet, you must not try to use Him to achieve your own ends. It is not possible to bargain with God. ("I'll do this if You will do that.") That is not Christianity at all, but a form of magic or paganism in which you appease the cranky deity to get a favor. Are you getting into Christianity to serve God or to get God to serve you? Those are two opposite motives, and they result in two different religions. You must come to God because 1) you owe it to Him to give Him your life (because He is your Creator), and 2) you are deeply grateful to Him for sacrificing His Son (because He is your Redeemer).
On the other hand, you may feel no need at all or interest in knowing God. This does not mean you should stay uncommitted. If you were created by God, then you owe Him your life, whether you feel like it or not. You are obligated to seek Him and ask Him to soften your heart and enlighten your eyes. If you say, "I have no faith," that is no excuse either. You need only doubt your doubts. No one can doubt everything at once—you must believe in something to doubt something else. For example, do you believe you are competent to run your own life? Where is the evidence for that? Why doubt everything but your doubts about God and your faith in yourself? Is that fair? You owe it to God to seek Him. Do so.
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